“You can always tell a good wingman: when you’ve made a fool of yourself, he doesn’t feel you’ve done a permanent job”

There are certain qualities that a wing should have when you are together. He can challenge you and help you to go beyond your own reasonable boundaries. He can motivate you when you are ready to give in and be there for you when your life seems to be falling apart.

If you do something wrong, you might not notice it without your wingman’s help. These are just a handful of the benefits that you enjoy if you have a wing. Some of the important qualities of a good wing are shown below:

Fun – You are in the bar/club with your friend to have fun. That is your primary goal and every time you go out with this person, you should be able to completely relax and enjoy the night. Forget any goals you may have as you are

just there to have fun and hang out with your friend. This will release any pressure you feel.

Encourages you to Approach – Everybody feels the butterflies at some point before the first approach and it can be difficult to overcome. A good wingman will encourage you to approach and even push you to approach groups until you start to relax and get in state. Remember, one little push can be the difference between an average night and a great one.

Quality Feedback - It can sometimes be difficult to analyze your interactions when you are involved in them so feedback from any other source can be invaluable. Usually when somebody experienced is observing an interaction; they can tell straight away what you are doing well and what you need to change to become successful. He can provide you with insights that maybe you didn’t realize while you were in the conversation. Little things can make a big difference and your wingman will pick up on your body language and other subtle cues that most people might never realize until it was pointed out.

Positivity – When you are around positive people, you are automatically put in a good mood and anything becomes possible. Have a rule that when you are out in the bars and clubs, you must only project positive energy and realize that anything you say that is negative will drag the mood down and work against you. Leave your personal problems at home and just have fun. If you get rejected, simply move on and do not let it affect your mood and attitude.

Following the Code – If you follow the rules, your wingman will probably become one of your closest friends over time and you will share a lot of experiences with him as you both strive to grow and develop. The rules are simply to avoid confusion and competition and followed correctly, will definitely increase your success in any group you approach. It is good to create a good understanding between you both and when somebody steps over the line, you can quickly point it out. Your wingman is the biggest asset you have in the social arena.

When you are in the group with him, he’s increasing your value just by being there. He’s a guy that’s dressed up, socially intelligent, has a great sense of humor, fun but to name a few. When your there he adds value to you. When you are not there, he still adds value to you.

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So many people have missed out on the opportunity of a relationship because they made one critical mistake – they didn’t isolate the person when they had the chance.

Many women will not even give their number out in front of their friends, not to mention kiss you. They may be attracted to you and really like you but the social pressure of being called a slut will often hold her back and cause her to reject you. In fact, women want to avoid this label at all costs. This is simple basic human psychology. If she rejects you, it does not mean the issue is with you. Most of the time the problem lies with her friends. Move her away from her friends and the problem disappears. Don’t be one of the guys who make this crucial mistake.

Women are attracted to men, who know what they want in life and go for it.They want men who will take the lead in the relationship, not boys that look to others to take control of the steering wheel for them. They want to be able to

relax and allow you to take them on the journey that is your life. If a man does not lead, the woman in the relationship is turned off and it kills the attraction in the relationships and dating each time.

Thus, you should lead the relationship right from the start. To do this, you must first understand some principles. You have now created a connection, but in order to deepen the connection, you must spend some time alone with her.

She wants you to demonstrate your alpha qualities by leading the interaction and you should realize that she cannot deepen the connection between you while her friends are around for the following reasons…

• Her friends may judge her if she starts talking about certain topics
• She may feel under pressure to act in a certain way in front of her friends
• If she kisses you, her friends may perceive her as a slut
• She will be constantly distracted by her friends

These are just three of the many reasons why, once you have built a connection with her, isolation is essential. She will be able to give you her full attention, without feeling any pressure of being judged by her social circle. There will be nobody to butt into your conversation or drag her off dancing etc. The main purpose of isolation is to make sure you have some private time together to build up emotional connection. Many men get so excited when they find a woman who is interested in them that they forget that to rapidly increase the intimacy of the situation, they must isolate the person they are interested in.

is such an important part of leading early on and if you don’t go for the isolation, your chances of deepening your relationship with her will decrease dramatically. Many women are so used to being the one to make the decisions

and call the shots that it has become second nature to her. She leads without thinking. When you isolate her, you show that you are the one in control of the interaction.

One of the principle reasons that most guys will not attempt to isolate the girl is that they fear that she will say no and so they will lose her. They fear that by taking the lead, they will lose the girl. Many men are not used to beautiful women finding them attractive and actually willing to spend time with them and so they develop a huge fear of losing the woman.

They believe they are out of their league and aim to do everything right to avoid screwing up this opportunity. They do not isolate her and instead attempt to take the safe path. Ironically, this attitude will cause the women to lose all attraction for them. The woman wants you to isolate her.

By isolating her, you have created huge sexual tension because you are leading. She wants you to take the lead in the interaction and to deepen the connection between you. She cannot suggest a move from the area she is in because her friends are there and it would also seem way too forward.

It’s your job to suggest the move and you must become comfortable doing this. On the other hand, by attempting to get others to follow, you are basically asking them if it’s ok with them if you took control of the situation. In essence, you are looking to them to let you lead. This puts them in the lead as they can simply stop you what you want at any time, by the simple fact of not following you.

When you isolate a person, you lead without needing them to follow. Whether they come or not, you are going anyway.

Try it and experiment with it. If they don’t follow you become comfortable with the uneasiness that comes when you leave on your own. As humans we fear losing approval of others, but once you become comfortable with that, they person will realise that you are leaving and they will come with you. If you lead and isolate in this way, the person will follow you.

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Most people have no idea when to isolate her. They either do it too early or avoid it altogether. Your aim should be to isolate her as soon as possible.

Calibrate the situation and experiment until you know the attraction signs. If you isolate her too quickly, it may be uncomfortable and her friends might interrupt you. Like any form of escalation, the secret is to just do it when you believe you have enough attraction build.

Sometimes it will work, sometimes it won’t but you will learn from every attempt. Ideally, you should go for the isolation within the first 15 minutes. When you isolate you must do so with absolute authority and conviction. Don’t hesitate and really believe in yourself. It’s very important that you lead here and display your alpha qualities or she will not follow you. You should say any of the following lines:

• This bar is really noisy…I can’t hear you…lets go over to the seat

• Let’s go to the bar and get a drink

• I’m going to introduce you to some friends in the smoking area.

Then grab her hand and walk away, look ahead and fully believe that she will come with you and she will! It is so important that you believe she will come with you and your confidence will increase tremendously once you achieve thisstep. It’s easier than you think.

Isolation is one of the crucial steps in the interaction and should be achieved before qualification. As stated above, the main purpose of isolating is to build an emotional connection with this person. The stronger this connection, the stronger the chance she will want to see you again or kiss you.

Isolation is especially important in loud clubs as because of the noise it can be quite hard to build an emotional connection.If the person is in a very loud area, then it will be very difficult to open up so it is vital to move her to a quieter area. An example might be the smoking area or at the entrance to the club.

Isolation is also an attraction test and it also allows her to comply with you. If she does isolate with you and she is comfortable with being alone with you, then you can really ask the bigger qualification questions and she will really invest in you.

Most guys choose to stay and try to escalate the attraction right in front of her friends. However, her friends will try to stop you and interrupt you because you are giving all the attention to one person. After all, creating a connection with somebody is primarily between just two people as there is a level of intimacy involved.

You are focusing all your attention on only one person in the group and, in doing so; you are ignoring the other people in the group. This will annoy and irritate the other people. They will become bored and maybe even jealous.

In return, the will upset and interrupt the interaction or try everything in their power to get involved. They might even bring the other person away to make sure that they’re no longer the center of attention. By isolating the person you

are interested in, you avoid all these issues. In doing so, you are satisfying the needs of the woman to be independent, but also letting the group know that they too are important. In essence, you’re taking care of everyone.

Body Position Isolation

When you are chatting to somebody, you can easily isolate them from the group, simply by leading them to face you, with their back to the group. In this way, you can have your own private conversation, away from the group. You can also increase the double conversation and use touch far more than you could if she was with her friends. Never stand between her and her friends, or they will be giving her eye signals that will be distracting. This is an excellent way of isolation that requires very little compliance.

It is best used before you attempt the full isolation, to get a connection. If your wingman comes in and is speakingto the rest of the group, then this can work especially well. With direct eye contact, simply take a step away from the group while you are speaking to her, and she will follow your gaze.

After Isolation

When you isolate somebody, you can now relax with them. Now that the two of you are finally alone, you can build attraction and rapport. You can start asking the bigger qualification questions and find out who she really is. You can get her number and set up a date. If the chemistry is right between you, you can also go in for the kiss. However, do not escalate any further as you are a classy guy and you are respectful of her values.

You will probably attend this venue again and you do not want to be seen as a sleazy guy. When you finish chatting and you set up a date, bring her back to the group and relax with them for a while.

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On a date, if you bring somebody to a variety of locations, it establishes comfort between you far more quickly. This can also create a much deeper connection with her each location instills more memories. The same principle can also work when you meet the person for the first time. For example, the next time you are in bar, rather than simply going for the easy option of asking her for her phone number, try to bring her with you to a different bar.

By doing this you are giving her an attraction test and if she complies with you, then you know that a certain level of trust exists between you. To switch bars, you can simply say one of the following:

“Hey guys, there is a really cool live band playing in a bar up the street…We are going now but you guys should come too – you will love it”

or

“We are going to another bar to meet some friends – you should come with us”

If you suggest going to her place, your place, or a hotel room you’re more than likely going to get a negative response unless you can tell she wants to cuddle up to you. On the other hand a live music bar or a late night pizza place will  work far better in your favour. Bringing a girl or a group to multiple locations is a way of building comfort with her.

With each venue change, her trust in you will grow and you will connect much easier together. This is assuming, of course, that there was a smooth transition and that interesting conversation and activities take place at each location. By changing venues, you are also taking the lead in the interaction and she is choosing to follow you.

This is especially important and it will really raise your value. You are also creating a time distortion and because of the change in venues, they will feel like they have known you for much longer than just a few hours. When you leave the club with a girl or a group, you need to establish that you are leading immediately.

This is very important as if you do not, guys may come up and flirt with them on the street or they may get distracted by other people or different clubs etc. Thus, when you leave the club, go to the person you are interested in and say the following:

“Show me your hand… (Link arms with her)

…Now if any women come up to hit on me, you have to save me – promise!”

If you have changed locations to several different bars and you are getting on really well, the next step is to bring drive around with them in your car. You can do this easily by suggesting to go to another bar, a little farther away but you will drive over.

If they are not comfortable with getting into your car, then you can either build more comfort and try again or simply organise a date and say your goodbyes. However, if you phrase it in the right way, they will usually realize that it is no big deal and they will gladly get in.

If you are with your wingman and two girls, put him in the back with his girl and now the person you are interested in is beside you. Make sure you have some good music to keep up the mood and the energy. Go to a few different bars and if they are comfortable with it, you can bring them back to your house for a few drinks. If they do not want to go, then give them a lift home as this will build more comfort and trust and show you to be a cool guy.

If she comes back to your place, then you know that she really trusts you and is attracted to you. In the house, make sure to sit next to her. Make your house exciting and have it unique to you so you can show it off to her. Have some pictures in the laptop, paintings on the wall, interesting music you want her to listen, ornaments that you bought on holidays and even your pet you want to show her.

A boring house shows you to be a boring guy. She is in your house so make sure she is comfortable and make her feel welcome and at home. Ask her what she wants to drink and give her options.

Do not offer alcohol as she might think that you are trying to make her drunk. So start with “I have coffee, tea and wine” and pick one of them based on your desire for yourself and let her choose what she wants.

It is highly recommended that you also have plenty CD’s ready to listen from various singers while she is with you in the home as silence might make her feel tense and ruin the mood. Once you know that she is comfortable, you can begin to kiss her.

The more time you spend with her, the more value you can build and your chances of getting the number will increase. Staying an extra ten minutes can often be the difference between her giving you the number or rejecting you.

Once you perfect this, you will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.

It is all about the psychology of human behavior and once you understand it, you will get as many numbers as you want. Just realize that all you have to do is ask. However never use the following phrases:

• Can I have your number?
• Is it ok if I have your number?
• Do you mind if I get your number?

You must be more dominant and expect success. Try the routines below and pick the one that works the best for you and use this exact sequence every time you talk to a woman and you want to get her phone number. The key here is to just act like it is completely natural and eventually it will become that way. In a very short time, it will become a habit and you will be supremely confident with it.

Shown below are three very successful methods of asking for the number:

The Walk-away

This works especially well during the day or if you have just met somebody for a few minutes and you have to rush. After you chat to them, say the following:

“It was great to meet you…I’ll see you around” You have said your goodbyes so quickly that they will feel a temporarily feeling of loss. Just a moment ago, they were having a good time with you and now suddenly you are leaving. This will seem really unusual as most women are used to guys clinging to them. So when you do this you will differentiate yourself in a good way. Then, just as you go to walk away, turn back around and

say “You know, we should swop details…what’s your number?”

If you do it correctly, she will jump at the chance of remaining in contact. Because of the temporary feeling of loss, there is a much greater chance of getting her number.

The Phone Switch

This is a fantastic way of exchanging number and takes a lot of confidence to do it. It works especially well if you are in a group and you don’t want to have to ask for the number in front of everybody. Most people usually have their phones on the table or somewhere in plain sight when they are in a bar. If you are flirting with somebody and you see their phone, make a positive remark about it and ask can you see it. When they hand the phone over to you, dial your number and ring yourself, while simultaneously starting a new conversation. You can then erase your number from the list of dialled calls.

This is usually done by clicking on the menu and pressing “clear contacts”. Just be sure you don’t delete all her contacts. As you hand the phone back you can say the following prize line with a smile “I just swopped number with you…Just to save you the awkwardness of having to ask me for my number before I leave”.

The Email-Number Close

You should go for the phone number over her email address everytime. However, you can easily get both if you approach it in the right manner. A Person will naturally give their email out to somebody far more easily than their phone number as it is less personal. In fact, if you have any connection with this person at all, it’s likely that they will give you their email. This works especially well in coffee shops or in quiet bars. It also works better if you have a pen and paper with you. After you have spoken to her for a short while, you can take your leave but before you go, simply say “Do you have an email?”

This is a very basic question and will start to build a yes ladder. She will answer yes and you then hand her the pen and paper and tell her to write it down. You treat her yes as confirmation that she wants to give you her email. This is also an attraction test and the more she invests in you, the more she will be willing to

invest in the future. As she is writing down her email address, you simply say, “”Write down your number too!”.

In the example above, you have broken down the giving of the number into two steps, which dramatically improves the chances. The strength of this method is that you are asking them to write their phone number down as they are writing down their email and, in doing so; you have built a very powerful compliance momentum.

By asking for her email, you have given her a very small attraction test and if you have any value built at all, she will comply with you. It’s very low risk and most people give out an email address without thinking about it. Asking for the phone number is much more personal, but by asking for it while they are writing down their email, your chances of success will skyrocket. Try it and you will realise how powerful this is!

A good kisser will really ignite huge chemistry, and send a tingling feeling rushing through her body. It has been theorized that a woman will decide after the first kiss, whether or not she will have sex with the man.

Indeed many women may initially decide to pursue a relationship with a guy, but when they find out he’s a bad or a mediocre kisser, they change their minds entirely.

Most people, men and women, will judge the first kiss as a precursor to whether or not the rest of the physical relationship will work. If the person kisses badly, then they are probably not amazing at the other areas. So it is vital to get the first kiss perfect.

Where to Kiss - A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. You should never kiss her in front of her friends as this will create unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. It will draw immediate attention and make her feel uncomfortable. Instead, you should kiss her when you have isolated her and the two of you are alone. This may be in the smoking area, outside the bar or in your car. Kissing stimulates women faster than any other physical activity. It is important to consider the strong sexual reactions that typically accompany a kiss.

If you have already established an intense physical chemistry between you and your partner, it is likely that the kiss will become very passionate and this can only happen when the two of you are alone. However, in a bar kissing is the absolute maximum level to cross. Do not escalate the physicality of the situation any further as you will portray yourself as a sleazy guy and a player. Respect yourself and her and be mindful of your surroundings.

When to Kiss - You only kiss her when you are absolutely sure that she will kiss you. This could be in the first ten minutes or you may have to wait far longer. How can you possibly know when is the perfect time? Is there a way to know every time if she will kiss you or not? The answer is yes – If you can read body language and use attraction tests. So many guys do not pick up on her body language cues and just lean in blindly when the girl is not ready and so get rejected.

Look for inviting body language and improve your expertise by studying the section in this book, on the signs of attraction. You can also give her attraction tests to see if she is ready to kiss you yet. For example, if you ask to sip her drink and she refuses, you can be sure that if you had leaned in to kiss her, she would have turned away. One of the best attraction tests to give before going for the kiss is to kiss your index finger and put it against her lips and tell her to kiss it. If she does, then she is probably waiting for you to kiss her. Once you get good as accessing body language and understanding how to give attraction tests, you will know when to kiss her every time

How to go for the Kiss - Before you go to kiss her, you must let her know that you are going in for the kiss at least a few seconds in advance. If you do not do this, then there is a chance that she will turn away when you try to kiss her. This does not mean that she doesn’t want to kiss you. It is merely a reflex action that most of us do naturally when people get too close too quickly. There are many ways that you can let her know that you are going to kiss her.You can do this verbally by asking her the following

“Are you a good kisser? How would you rate yourself out of 10 in terms of kissing…?”

If she says yes, then you can simply lean in and kiss her. Perhaps the best way is to simply let the conversation trail off and look her in the eye. Slowly move your gaze down to her lips and then back up to her eyes. If she blushes, then you know she is ready to be kissed. Either way, you have given her a very clear signal that you are going to kiss her.

How to Kiss – When you kiss her, you want the kiss to take on a life of its own. Everybody remembers a kiss that left them breathless and sent chills sent through their body. A kiss can seal a deal or destroy it. It’s amazing how one action can say so much. Just as your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people choose to leave their

eyes open during the kiss. However, until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. You can start off with soft kisses on the lips to make her feel comfortable.

Perhaps suck on her lips a little. Do not do open mouth kissing until the kiss has lasted for at least a few seconds. Then open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips and see how they respond. As the two of you move closer together, tilt your head slightly to avoid hitting noses. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilted, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Barely touch her lipswhen kissing. Your hands are also important and you can use your fingers to touch her lips and face. Maintaining steady eye contact before and after the kiss is very important.

Always Pull Away First – Have you ever had that kiss that left you wanting more? If so, then the other person pulled away first. Keep it simple. There’s no need for a marathon kissing session. One of the easiest ways to kill the sexual tension between you is to kiss for too long.The worst thing that can happen is for her mind to start drifting away to other topics while you are kissing her. When you kiss her for the first time, you will be the one

that initiates the kiss and also the one that will end it. Kiss her for around ten to fifteen seconds and then pull away. If you kiss for any longer, the tension may begin to dissipate. Anyway, you are in a club and you can’t get carried away with kissing so keep it short. This will hugely increase the sexual tension and make her chase you and she may even initiate a second kiss.

Kissing is very important for a number of different reasons. It allows you to clearly gauge where you stand with the girl. The girl expects you to kiss her. That’s right. Every girl likes a guy to be masculine, aggressive and to show

initiative by going in for the kiss. By not attempting to kiss her, you most likely are giving her the wrong signals and she may even feel that you are not really that interested in her. Your breath is also very important so make sure it smells great. There is nothing worse than kissing somebody with bad breath.

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips before you kiss as slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. Lastly, while you are kissing her, avoid going sexual. Enjoy the kiss but hold off on groping, especially if you are still in the location where you met each other. Kissing causes our brain to produce oxytocin, a chemistry building hormone, which prompts you to want to kiss even more. So reserve your passion for a private location.

“Have you ever seen a guy who just seems to “have it” with women? They always have the right thing to say and are incredible at building attraction through humor…Most of the conversation is usually spent in role-play.

Once you apply this skill, you too will bring your game to the next level. Role-playing is a wonderful tool for creating incredible sexual tension with a woman. This one element could really transform your interactions and allow your playful side to emerge.

The beauty of role playing is that you get to be anyone you want, and you create your own reality as inhibitions slowly diminish into nothingness. Your best bet is to start off with something simple such as giving her a nickname.

If you suggest it in the right way, she will be amused and buy into your frame with enthusiasm. Role playing can be so much fun and allows you to add a sexual element into your interaction. The fun part about this is that you can laugh and have a good time whilst doing it. You should introduce banter into every interaction and allow your playful side to come across.

The essence of banter is role-playing. In your interactions, you should establish a role for the two of you can then act out in a playful way. Role-playing allows you to connect with the other person in ways she may not have experienced before. You can start role-playing in the first few minutes of the interaction.

It allows you to be physical and touch her. You can hold her hand, rub her shoulders, squeeze her leg-whatever you choose and make it part of the role-play…without mauling her, of course. By touching her while you role-play, you can easily make a connection with her and nothing is more important to a woman than a deep connection.

Role-playing is an art as well as a skill. It’s easy to make someone feel comfortable or even attached to you by having them place you in their thought process and pretend to do things with you. This is a simple method to have someone warm up to you and to easily get to know them.

Role-playing works so much better than just using the odd witty line. If you say a funny line, then you are just a guy that made a joke. However, if you can start role-playing, you can have a much more fun and playful interaction. You can branch off into anydirection and really let your creativity flow as you build rapport.

Examples of Role-playing include:

Little Sister/Older Brother

• You could call her a little brat and pretend that you are her older brother, who knows what’s best for her…You can pretend to send her to her room when she is bold…you can also assume that all her friends have a crush on you and tell her how annoying it is to hear them giggling when you walk into the room etc.

Artist at Work

• Create a role-play in which she is the artist and you are the art. Tell her that she has to capture your smile like the Mona Lisa painting…What background should I have? With or without clothes? Are you up to it?

Flirting Teacher

• Set up the role that one of you is the dating doctor and your patient has come looking for flirting tips. Make up a scenario where you have to prepare them for a date and give them advice…Give them tips on body language and kissing.

Student/Teacher

• You’ve decided to play the student/teacher role-play with you being the teacher of course. This scenario is full of potential: power dynamics and an opportunity for sexual bribery. What happens when you are in charge of detention after school and there are other people there? Do you let them off early and keep her for a little longer?

It’s all about making her feel good and creating an “our world reality”. You can also change assumed roles, and the result is a funny and charming interaction. Adding details to the role-play will not only give you more ideas for the fantasy, but it can really help get you in character and make the role play come to life. I have used all the above role-plays when flirting with women. Without fail, the result is giant smiles and laughter.

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You should aim to become a master at story-telling. A master storyteller can turn even the most boring occurrence into something captivating and exciting, and once you become skilled in this art, you will easily be able to present

yourself in your best possible light. However, you don’t have to focus on every particular detail of the story. Remember, Storytelling is an art, not a science. You are not obliged to include boring or unnecessary facts or

keep things in chronological order. Rather than simply stating facts, you want to focus on creating emotions, while subtly slipping into the story your attractive qualities.

Your story should create many different types of emotions in your listener such as laughter, suspense, curiosity, respect and even awe. Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions. Your aim is to make people empathize with the emotions in the story and allow them to experience the whole spectrum of feelings and if you achieve this, you will truly captivate them.

Each of your longer stories should create tension, forcing your listener to wonder what will happen next. Just at the point when the tension is at its peak, you release everything you have just built up with a single wave of emotion, creating a sense of relief. You have just succeeded in making them physically feel something with you. That is very powerful.

Now that you have been asked about the topic, it is time to deliver the story itself. You now have an opportunity to separate yourself from other guys early on, by telling her a story that hits on many of your positive qualities, such as your confidence, leadership, sense of humour, ambition etc. As you tell it, she will naturally read between the lines, and look for clues to see what type of person you are.

You should be aware that you are not just telling a story but rather giving a representation of you as a person. So how can you ensure that your particular story is exciting, while representing you in your best possible light? Just keep the following points in mind when you are writing up your story.

“Never make up stories. Instead find stories from your life in which you displayed some of the qualities shown above”

You must convey your personality into the story. You do this by highlighting certain attractive qualities about yourself into the story. There is no one quality that every single person is magnetically attracted to. Each value that you demonstrate is relative to the person. What is valuable to one person may not be valuable to the next. That is why it is important to demonstrate more than one attractive quality in your story. For example, one woman might see a guy surrounded by beautiful women and be hugely attracted to him as a result, while another woman might view the same guy as a player and be turned off.

Another man might find out, while talking to a woman, that she is famous and he might want to shy away from the limelight, while another guy might jump at the chance to get some press. Each person may value different qualities in people. Many people view value as simply possessions or successes. While these are indeed indicators of value, the real examples of value are the qualities that caused you to achieve these goals. The twelve main qualities are listed above and you must convey these qualities in your stories. An example of how to do this is shown below:

“Oh you play basketball…Have you ever heard of a player called Shaquille O’Neil…I visited Miami last year with my Hurling team…

We won the League and as a result of being the captain I got to decide where to go on our holiday…I chose to go to Miami for two weeks Miami for two weeks…It was an absolutely amazing Trip…On the first night, we went out to the bar and the atmosphere was amazing…Me and my friend Dermot saw two girls standing at the bar with a guy, and we approached them and began a conversation…The girl I was talking to was called Karen and we got go really well together…She had a great personality and we really connected with each other…Over the two weeks, I met her six times and on the second last date, she asked me if I wanted to go to a basketball match…I said I would like to go but I heard that the tickets were very difficult to find.

She assured me that she would have no problem getting the tickets and I asked her where she would get them…She told me that she was a cheerleader for Miami Heat and she had access to tickets at any time…So we went to the Match and it was fantastic…The colour, excitement and fanfare of the whole event was amazing and I really enjoyed it…We also had ringside seats so we could see the action perfectly… After the Match, she asked me if I wanted to meet the players and I said that I would love to…These players are world famous and are paid millions per year…

We went to the dressing room and I met all the players…The last guy I met was Shaquille O’Neil and this guy is absolutely enormous…He stands seven feet two inches in height and when I shook hands with him, his hand wrapped totally around mine…I spoke to him for five minutes and when he found out that I was from Ireland, he said he had relations there and he loved Irish people…He then gave me his Basketball Jersey and signed it…Yeah, it was really cool

“I have a Picture of Me, Shaquille and Karen on my phone…Check it out!”

The story above contains embedded values, which creates attraction and stimulates emotions in the listener. The listener learns a lot about the personality of the person telling the story, and as a result of the attractive qualities, his value rises.

The embedded values in the story are as follows:

• Preselection – This person can date very beautiful women, such as cheerleaders, as show in the picture. He can also keep a relationship.
• Confidence – He approached a group in the bar and was not put off by the fact that there was a guy in the group
• Interesting Lifestyle – He plays sport professionally and has travelled so he has an exciting lifestyle
• Social – When he goes to a bar, he can meet new people and easily make new friends.
• Leadership – He is the captain of his team and they won the league.

Once you master storytelling, you will become a master of emotions.

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Cold reading can be a powerful tool when it comes to creating attraction. You can really get somebody to open up to you naturally and quickly find commonalities you share that will bond you together. Remember, people like

people who are like themselves. Once you practice this technique, you will get very good at it very quickly and you will be amazed at how quickly the conversation will develop. What you are basically doing is making a series of vague statements, and observing the person’s reactions. While you can tease the person with it playfully, it can also work quite well because you are using statements that can have multiple meanings.

Usually, when a person hears such a word or statement, their mind will fill in the meaning from their own personal experience and so it will seem to be a true statement about them. If you have ever read a newspaper horoscope and felt that it was accurate, you have experienced the power of this technique. By using cold reading, you can create a fun and fascinating conversation. You will easily find out information about the person, they will become more comfortable with you and rapport will develop faster.

Cold reading also demonstrates higher status, which is a crucial element for creating attraction. It shows you are a fun, interesting guy, who understands other people. If you use and develop this skill you will increase your chances for success. What you are basically doing is using her appearance, mannerisms and overall profile to make an educated guess about what type of person she is.

After you open conversation, you can make playful teasing comments about the person you are interested in to escalate sexual tension. Some examples are shown below:

• You strike me as the leader of your group
• It takes a lot to get you mad but when you do everybody better watch out
• You guys need to get her out more
• You strike me as a very ambitious person but at the moment you are quite lazy about your goals
• I bet when you were younger you were really shy

Once you become used to cold reading, you can make more serious statements later in the conversation. They are very general so will usually contain a degree of truth and people will really feel that you understand them and so will be more open to you. This will really spice up the conversation. You can spot something interesting about her appearance or personality then use this trait make a guess about her.

You will need to listen very closely to the conversation so when you hear a commonality, you can quickly point it out. The correct way to use this tool is to introduce the cold reading routine as a natural part of the conversation. Once you notice something, find a way to directly tie your observation to the conversation. Some more serious cold reads that you can use later in the conversation are shown below. If you memorize these you really won’t need any others.

• You like change and variety and don’t like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations.
• You are independent minded and need proof before accepting others opinions.
• You need to really trust others before revealing yourself to others.
• Sometimes you are very energetic and outgoing, and other times you just like to relax Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic.
• You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.

One of the most important things to remember with Cold Reads is when to use them in the conversation. If you use the more serious cold reads early in the conversation, it will appear that you are trying too hard and may even come across as weird. If you use one of the more serious lines in the first few minutes, she may discard it even if you are completely right.

Everybody hates being predictable and she will refuse to believe that you could know something of value about her personality, just minutes after meeting her. This is why you should use the more playful cold reads at the start. However, using the more serious ones at the right time can have a great impact.

Cold Reading Tips

1. Be general

2. Analyse the body language

3. Give a reason for your cold read – “I think you are a very generous person, I noticed that every time you talk about your friend you speak with a very “Giving” attitude”

4. Use the opening line “I don’t really know you but you strike me as someone who…”

5. Speak slowly and gauge her reaction

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