I was recently asked to write an article by one of Ireland’s top magazines Stellar, on how women could make themselves more approachable to men and the article is shown below.

In a bar/club, men look for women who are easily approachable. It does not matter if she is the most glamorous, the youngest or the sexiest. Any woman can attract more men to open conversation, simply by making herself more approachable.

As you know, due to my business, I spend a lot of time in bars/clubs. In the social scene, I meet a lot of people and I have a large social circle that includes a lot of women. Many of my female friends tell me they really want to find a man but it’s so difficult to meet somebody they can really connect with. They say that men don’t approach them enough and the ones that do are usually drunk. I know these women are really cool and a lot of them are very attractive. So I started asking them what they usually do on a night out and I also began asking the guys I train how they select women to approach at bars/clubs.

A few weeks ago I was out in Krystal on Saturday night with a group that I hung out with in college. All the girls had boyfriends, except for two – Sinead and Ciara and they started the usual complaint about how hard it was to meet guys etc. I explained to them some of the following tips and I told them if they gave them a try and they were not approached by at least three guys each in the next hour, I would buy the whole group a round of drinks (14 people!!)

So they did it and the group set a timer. After two minutes, two guys approached. 10 minutes later, another guy approached. By the end of the hour, they were approached 11 times between them and when they got back to our group, we learned that Ciara had exchanged numbers with a guy that she had her eye on many times before in the club, but had always been too shy to approach him.

I know that these tips work from teaching guys and the limiting views that a lot of guys have so if you are single and looking for a guy, give them a try.

Stand alone or with one other woman. I know from teaching Bootcamps that guys will not approach a group that has guys in it. Very very few guys will feel comfortable enough to engage a mixed group or even a group of more than three women. You must decide if you are there to socialize with other women, or to meet a man. I know you can’t ignore your friends but you must choose what you want. By standing alone or with one other woman, you will make it far easier for a man to approach.

The power of Touch – Most guys will approach in two’s so when you are talking to the guys, only touch the guy you are interested in. If you touch his friend, you are sending confusing signals. As you speak to him, touch his arm when you are making a point or make a comment about his clothing while touching it and maintaining strong eye contact. It is a scientific fact that when you touch somebody, even the lightest tip, you can create powerful physical sensations in their body. With the right information about how and when to touch, you can really connect with people. I am a guy and I know the effect this can have on me when women touch me as we are talking. I guarantee you will get a lot attention from the guy you are interested in.

The Busy Points – As you arrive in the club, watch the flow of people and notice the areas that most people pass by. Perhaps it’s on the way to the dancefloor, beside the bar or in the smoking area. Also, find somewhere that it’s quiet enough to talk. I know in Krystal, the best place is just past the top of the stairs. Look for congestion and areas that people continually come back to. Stand in these points and you will be approached. If you sit in the corner, most guys won’t even see you.

Say Hi -  Ok, you should be standing at a busy point, with only one of your girlfriends. Every time a cute guy walks by, just say hi with a smile. Even if the guy walks on, you can be sure he is thinking about you and he will probably approach later, when he comes to his senses. It will put you in a great mood, and by just simply saying hi, you set yourself apart as a woman who is friendly to men, something that can be rare in today’s social climate. That’s often all it takes for you to appear easily approachable to men, and you will be approached all night.

Put aside your Prototype – Everyone has an image of the perfect guy/girl in their mind. If somebody approaches, don’t just blow them off straight away based solely on looks. Give them a chance to put forward their personality – you may be surprised to find hidden qualities in them that are very important and attractive to you. It is possible to still maintain your standards, while keeping an open mind. After all, my girlfriend said she would never go out with anyone from the country…

These are just five quick tips on how to attract more men into your life. 44% of Irish women are single and I know that figure is mostly due to situational dynamics and routines people fall into. Men want to meet you, but at least give us a chance. So if you are interested to find a man, perhaps you might try incorporating a few of the above points and I guarantee you will be approached by far more men.

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Kissing the woman is easily one of the most important parts of an interaction. However, it is also the rock on which most interactions perish. Before you kiss the girl, analyze the social circumstances.

You should not kiss the girl where all her friends and social circle are around as everybody would draw immediate attention and might make her feel uncomfortable. There is no certain time for kissing but it is recommended that you kiss her while she is comfortable with you. Usually, the comfort phase is the best time to proceed.

Passionate kisses are love magnets that leaves a lasting, eroticized impression on a women’s mind. To master the art of kissing a women, it is vital that you learn how to kiss passionately without making her think it’s just your cue to get her into bed.

The skill of kissing does not simply consist of knowing how to maneuver your tongue inside a woman’s mouth without hitting her tonsils. Rather, it involves the entire mouth — the lips, tongue, teeth, and the rest of the body.

Do you want to kiss me? (Ask this if she says yes enjoy your kiss, if she says no, do not be pushy built up more comfort than try again later).

While you are kissing her, try to avoid going too sexual if you are in pub or club. Soft kisses are recommended. If you are in seduction phase and alone with the girl why not! Enjoy but be responsive to her behaviors and never forget that “no means no”. Some ways to improve your kissing technique are shown below.

* Barely touch her lips when kissing.

* Use your fingers to touch her lips and face.

* Kiss her neck and slowly move to the lips

* Bite her lips gently without giving her pain.

* Play with her ear lobes and pull her hair gently and get closer to her lips without kissing her.

* Get creative and lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish method. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your outer mouths.

* Begin sucking on her lips, one at a time. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don’t get too rough or you’ll end up giving her a hickey and I have yet to meet a woman who would appreciate that.

Make some noise! Say something romantic while you’re kissing, whisper or express your pleasure without words by smiling and sighing heavily.

Place your hands on either side of a woman’s face so that you do not cover her ears and your fingertips reach the back of her neck. Then, slowly pull her toward your lips while softly holding the sides of her head. Gaze into her eyes before planting one on her. Sigh “mmmm” during your kiss while holding her head.

When you kiss a woman and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it usually means that she really enjoyed it and there’s a good chance that you can seduce her further if you like.

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In the next 30 seconds, you will learn the secrets of attraction and begin to adopt the mindsets that 99% of men lack when it comes attracting more women into their life or finding that perfect person.

Kama lifestyles is Ireland’s #1 Dating Training Company, and our goal is simple, we want to teach you how to attract and meet any woman you choose. Our team of world class dating coaches are fully dedicated in helping you realize your full potential.

In this letter I’m going to tell you exactly what happens in the Bootcamp. I’m also going to include some comments from guys who have taken the Dating Bootcamp, and I’ll even provide you with a few links to Bootcamp review websites for unbiased 3rd party opinions.

You see, I want you to be certain that this is for you.

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The Kama lifestyles Dating Bootcamp is the Most Advanced Training Program on the market. The Kama lifestyles team are fully dedicated to producing a result in you and the skills that you will learn on the Bootcamp will be with you for the rest of your life.

The Boot-camps are held over two days in a five star hotel– “The Westbury”. They involve 8-10 hours of theory and 10 hours of practice. During the day, we meet the guys in a hotel conference room, we work on introducing positive empowering beliefs into your life and we also show you how to deal with any negative limiting beliefs you may have, such as fear of approaching, fear of rejection etc. Our Subjects include

• An Understanding of Male-female Psychology
• How to develop your Alpha Male Qualities
• How to Lead the Relationship
• How to Understand Yourself and your Emotions
• The next section will focus on your Outer Skills and include
• Identifying the Crucial Mistakes 99% of Guys make that cause them to get Rejected
• Mastering the Six Keys to creating an incredible First Impression
• The Top Ways to Demonstrate Instant Attraction
• How to instantly Create a Connection with Somebody New
• The 5 Skills needed to Form a Successful Relationship

Over both nights of our Boot-camp, we go out in bars and put our teachings into practice. Our instructors will demonstrate exactly how to approach and create attraction with any girl you choose. This will really accelerate your learning as you will be able to observe all the different aspects of a successful approach, such as Body Language, Posture as well as conversational dynamics.

Later that night, we will encourage you to approach any girls you are attracted to and start up a conversation…after a while you will begin to become aware of the social situation and will start to realize when you are building attraction and recognize the tools that allow you to achieve this. Our Kama Instructors will observe your interactions over the course of a night, and give you solid, practical, and usable feedback.

It’s all about having fun and as you begin to use some of the tools we have given you will be amazed at the change in reactions by those you are talking too and this will raise your confidence sky high…The System is something we all follow – and consists of a structure and set of powerful techniques and principles. This is something we all share. However, the style of each individual instructor is unique to him, as yours should be unique to you…

We do not want you to Change

We simply want you to grow, evolve and develop your personality. Over the two nights, you will begin to notice yourself integrating new elements into your style and personality. By the end of the program, you should know exactly where you are succeeding and failing, and we will tailor your approach to succeed every time.

After our Bootcamp, you will see a huge development in your social skills.

And this will attract more women into your life or help you find that perfect person and the rest is up to you.

So as you are reading this now, just ask yourself is this something you could see yourself doing?

Regards,

Stephen Nolan

Email – Info@kamalifestyles.com

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• Videos of us teaching in the Seminars
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